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Wedding officiant · Rapid City, SD

Getting married in South Dakota? I make it official.

I'm an ordained wedding officiant. I take care of the license, the signatures, and the filing so your marriage is legally recorded.

You plan the day. I handle the paperwork, the time on site, and the miles.

What this service is

I am an ordained minister through American Marriage Ministries. South Dakota does not require officiants to register with the state or any county. Once you have a valid license, I can solemnize the marriage anywhere in the state.

Paid services cover three things only:

  • Legal paperwork and filing
  • Time on the clock
  • Travel from Rapid City

Traditional rites are not sold through this service.

Packages

Filing and time, local

$275

Elopement or short legal solemnization. One location within 20 miles of Rapid City. About 20 minutes on site. Includes completing the license, signing as officiant, and returning it to the Register of Deeds within 10 days.

Filing and time, wedding day

$450

Same legal work, more time on site. One meeting beforehand. About 30 minutes at the venue. Included travel: 30 miles out from Rapid City, so 60 miles round trip.

Filing, time, and travel

$450 + mileage

Same legal work as wedding day. The first 30 miles out from Rapid City are included, which is 60 miles round trip. After that it is $1 per mile round trip. Example: 80 miles one way is 160 miles round trip, minus the 60 included, so 100 billable miles = $100 travel.

Add-ons

  • Rehearsal$75
  • Custom vow help$50
  • Under 7 days' notice$75
  • Holiday or Sturgis Rally week$100
  • Second stop same day$100

Package prices do not include travel. Travel is an additional fee: the first 30 miles out from Rapid City are included, which is 60 miles round trip, and after that it is $1 per mile round trip.

Non-refundable deposit of 50 percent accepts the quote and holds the date. The balance is due 14 days before the ceremony.

How a South Dakota marriage works

  1. 1

    Both of you go in person to any South Dakota Register of Deeds. Bring photo ID. Pay $40. Cash is safest. Some offices take cards with a surcharge. Pennington County in Rapid City does not take personal checks.

  2. 2

    The license is good for 90 days from the day you buy it, not from the wedding date. It can be used anywhere in South Dakota. It cannot be used in another state.

  3. 3

    There is no waiting period. You can get married the same day if you want.

  4. 4

    You need two witnesses. I confirm IDs and the names and addresses of both of you and both witnesses before we start.

  5. 5

    Afterward I give you the certificate and return the license to any Register of Deeds within 10 days. If that filing does not happen, there is no legal record of the marriage.

South Dakota officiants do not pre-register with the county. I carry American Marriage Ministries credentials in case a clerk asks to see them when the license comes back.

Also serving

North Dakota, Nebraska, Iowa, Wyoming & Montana

These states border South Dakota and do not require wedding officiants to register with the state or a county before solemnizing a marriage. You still need a license from the state where the ceremony happens.

North Dakota

No officiant registration. License valid 60 days. Two witnesses. I return the signed license to the county that issued it.

Nebraska

No officiant registration. License valid one year. Two witnesses. I file the return with the county clerk.

Iowa

No officiant registration. Three-day waiting period after the license is issued. Two witnesses. I return the certificate within 15 days.

Wyoming

No officiant registration. License valid one year. Witnesses sign the certificate. I return the completed license to the county clerk.

Montana

No officiant registration. License valid 180 days. Two witnesses. I return the certificate within 30 days.

Places couples use

These are common South Dakota spots. Parks are a separate permit from the marriage license. You handle the park permit. I handle the license filing.

Sylvan Lake, Custer State Park

Granite and water, park ceremony permit required, Needles Highway closes in winter

Needles Highway and Cathedral Spires

Same park permit, busy in summer

Spearfish Canyon

Bridal Veil Falls and Roughlock Falls

Badlands National Park

NPS special use permit about $100, apply around 45 days out

Black Hills National Forest overlooks

Often no permit for a small group with no setup

Mount Roosevelt Friendship Tower, Deadwood

Short hike

Pactola Reservoir or Sheridan Lake

Closer to Rapid City

Chapel in the Hills, Rapid City

Indoor backup, book the chapel separately

Mount Rushmore, Borglum View Terrace

NPS permit only, not the default

For most requests: Sylvan Lake, Spearfish Canyon, or a Forest Service overlook.

Custer State Park fees

The park and the lodge are not the same thing.

Park (Game, Fish and Parks)

One-day events park entrance license: $100 per 50 people. Written consent from the park manager at least 15 days ahead. Call 605-394-2693 and ask for the park manager, not the lodge. Vehicles: $25 per vehicle for up to 7 days at Custer State Park, or $20 motorcycle. Resident annual pass $40.

Lodge / resort

Deposit around $1,500. Venue rental around $6,000 unless a catering package. Sales: 605-255-4672.

A four-person elopement at the lake or a Needles pullout goes through GFP first.

After the vows

Wildlife Loop

Eighteen miles, paved, year-round. Go at first light or the last two hours before sunset. Stay in the vehicle. At least 100 yards from bison and elk. Do not stop in the lane. Do not feed the burros. Pets stay in the car. The Wildlife Loop is not a ceremony site.

Questions

Hold a date

A written agreement and a 50 percent non-refundable deposit are what hold your date. Read the agreement

Pick two possible dates on the calendar

Choose a first and second choice, give the ZIP code where the ceremony happens, and sign the agreement. I approve one date, then send the deposit invoice.

Request two dates

Or just send a note and I will reply:

Check your date

Give me two possible dates, the ZIP code where the ceremony happens, and your signature on the services agreement. I reply with which date I can take and what the mileage looks like. A written agreement and a 50 percent non-refundable deposit hold your date.

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